Sharad is a special need autistic child.The son of my friend Preeti. He is may be around 7 years old. All kids are very much attached to their grandparents so was he. Sudden news of sudden death of Shared s grandparents had raised many questions in my heart and mind.
Visit to Preeti s house had left another fear in my mind .Fear of breaking the news of loss of much loved grandparents to a child with special needs.
I am thinking n thinking but really can't go through the feelings Sharad and his mom are going through.
The behaviour pattern of Sharad post the loss is erratic. It seems he feels the pain of his grandparents loss.He is missing their absence.He has stopped eating like he used to.He is eating just to put a full stop to his hunger.He keeps peeping into one room or another. He wraps his grandpas quilt to feel the warmth of his daadu.As if he will wrap his arms around him.He bangs his head sometimes as if wanting to shout '_kahan ho ' dadu ,dadi I miss you.May they are also standing by him and blessing him by patting his back.Get up my son you have to go miles n miles....carry all smiles n smiles.
Visit to Preeti s house had left another fear in my mind .Fear of breaking the news of loss of much loved grandparents to a child with special needs.
I am thinking n thinking but really can't go through the feelings Sharad and his mom are going through.
The behaviour pattern of Sharad post the loss is erratic. It seems he feels the pain of his grandparents loss.He is missing their absence.He has stopped eating like he used to.He is eating just to put a full stop to his hunger.He keeps peeping into one room or another. He wraps his grandpas quilt to feel the warmth of his daadu.As if he will wrap his arms around him.He bangs his head sometimes as if wanting to shout '_kahan ho ' dadu ,dadi I miss you.May they are also standing by him and blessing him by patting his back.Get up my son you have to go miles n miles....carry all smiles n smiles.
I shared it with other friends how can we explain him that they are gone Shared.They will never come back......Some say put a big cross on their snap or explain him .Take councillors help or may be schools.One said engage him or spend more time.
What would you have done of you would have been Sharad or Preeti. Think.......Thi nk......someday you will be at Preeti s place.Every mother with a child of special needs has to work every simple thing in some special manner.May be you will find that special trick.
What would you have done of you would have been Sharad or Preeti. Think.......Thi nk......someday you will be at Preeti s place.Every mother with a child of special needs has to work every simple thing in some special manner.May be you will find that special trick.
My Tribute to Sharad s Grandparents and Parents..... May God Bless them all.
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